Know who it is your supporting and listening to. The purpose of this post is to not let this disgusting behavior slide. It’s very ironic to me how have posted about getting tested for coronavirus and staying safe but meanwhile their band member snuck out to meet me, with a newborn he is living with as the screenshot shows, who are especially immune compromised. This was someone she was spending every day with, cooking for every day, spending time with his family, and she even made masks for his whole household. Throughout the entire time he was talking to me, he was in quarantine with his girlfriend. I can only encourage and support them in coming forward, as their stories are not mine to tell. What would have happened if I was underaged? Since telling this story after finding out about him being in a relationship, multiple underaged girls have come forward telling me their experiences, which makes me feel sick inside. Also throughout our entire time talking, he never once asked me what my age was. When we were together I remember vaguely saying something along the lines of how are you single? But I should have followed up and questioned him about being in a relationship and for that, I am very sorry. I thought to myself there’s no way, he wouldn’t do that, especially with how sincere he seems. I thought to myself, why would he be speaking to me and openly flirting and upswiping on my stories and pursuing asking me to hang out if he was in a relationship? He is in the public eye and people would find out. After we had hung out on May 2nd, someone that followed me on my blog sent me the photo of him with his arm around a woman. Throughout the span of us talking starting at the beginning of March and ending in the beginning of May, there was no mention of being in a relationship. He literally snuck out during quarantine to hang out. He spent the entire day with her while speaking to me at the same time, until 7 pm. The entire time we were talking, there was no mention of having a girlfriend.which he did have, for almost a year. What could have happened if I said I wasn’t comfortable? If I tried to leave would I be able to find my way back? If anything were to happen, would anyone hear it? My friend was asleep and even though she had my location, if I called would she answer? The photo I sent to him was showing all of the mosquito bites from being out in the field that night we were together. Now looking back, it was dark out and there was no one around where he took me. When I was sitting on top of him he said “wait just a minute.” And I smiled and said what? To which he said “the way you look under the moonlight.you are so easy on the eyes.” When we were done and walking back to my friends he apologized for being quiet/silent I assume because said he was “still in shock from that”. He had a weird way of making you feel special and came off as charming and charismatic with knowing all the right words to say. I genuinely wanted to just meet him and talk with him and was under no assumption that this would result. He laid down a yoga mat and a blanket and we sat and talked for a bit and looked at the stars before we started making out and as we continued we moved onto doing more and eventually had sexual intercourse. He took me through the hills to a lookout in a grassy area which was about a 4-5 min walk from my friends. I had smoked a little bit with my friend before she went to bed. We made plans to hang out later that night and he met me right by my friends house to take a walk with him. He gave me his number then and we started to text. She said she was tired and didn’t want to that night. On April 30th I posted a story and he asked what street it was on since it looked “awfully familiar.” He then went on to say he would invite me to hang out at his place but “his roommates just had a baby that was still at the care center, but he just wanted to give them their space.” I was obviously understanding and I asked my friend who I was staying with if she was fine with him hanging out, even if it was outside in her yard and not inside her house. I was obviously excited since it was one of my favorite bands. He said that it was his neighborhood and that he hopes I was having fun and to hit him up if I got bored. He asked me what area I was in and I told him. On April 29th Sean saw from my Instagram story that I was in LA. I was staying at her house to comfort her which is by Elysian Park. I drove up to LA from San Diego to stay with my close friend to keep her company for a few days. From what used to be one of my favorite bands, Sean Redman deserves to get called out. I have wanted to address this but I was unsure of how.
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